Jim takes you through his life story. Growing up in rural Kansas with 9 other siblings and two hardworking and god loving parents.
Jim walks us through his first 2 marriages that ended in infidelity. He then walks us through 2 later marriages that ended in the death of his spouse.
Key quotes:
“God doesn’t make mistakes, his ways are perfect”
“To lose two wife’s to cancer in 10 years it leaves you emotionally scared, but I chose to use it to shine a light on how they lived life with faith and love for God. Do this I find peace beyond understanding. This can only come from God.”
Verses mentioned
Jim mentions how Paul explained how those who are married will face difficult times.
1 Corinthians 7 25-35
Remaining Unmarried
25 With regard to the question about people who have never married, I have no command from the Lord, but I give my opinion as one shown mercy by the Lord to be trustworthy. 26 Because of the impending crisis I think it best for you to remain as you are. 27 The one bound to a wife should not seek divorce. The one released from a wife should not seek marriage. 28 But if you marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face difficult circumstances, and I am trying to spare you such problems. 29 And I say this, brothers and sisters: The time is short. So then those who have wives should be as those who have none, 30 those with tears like those not weeping, those who rejoice like those not rejoicing, those who buy like those without possessions, 31 those who use the world as though they were not using it to the full. For the present shape of this world is passing away.
32 And I want you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the things of the world, how to please his wife, 34 and he is divided. An unmarried woman or a virgin is concerned about the things of the Lord, to be holy both in body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the things of the world, how to please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your benefit, not to place a limitation on you, but so that without distraction you may give notable and constant service to the Lord.
Ephesians 5 25-30
25 Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her 26 to sanctify her by cleansing her with the washing of the water by the word, 27 so that he may present the church to himself as glorious – not having a stain or wrinkle, or any such blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In the same way husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one has ever hated his own body but he feeds it and takes care of it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 for we are members of his body.
Jim experiences lead him to writing. He now has two books you can check out here.